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I think alot of people posting in this thread don't actually have teenagers/millenials in the family. My daughter is 18. As opposed to being disconnected from the past, the internet has made it possible for her to know more words to Fleetwood Mac songs than I do, and at least as good a hold on 80's rock/pop as I do which happened in my late teens. She's also watched a tonne of old tv shows along the way, Full House etc. and wears high waisted bellbottom jeans by choice. My son will be 17 in March, similarly knows way more music than you'd ever guess from Grunge to 80's metal and funk, and even threw on a Wham song the other day and jammed to it in the car. I almost cried laughing through my efforts to belt it out alongside him. He loves animae and says he's learned a tonne about what's important from these Japanese storytells, as well as all kinds of other interesting stuff. Sure kids today may socialize differently, or seemingly not value what we value, but that's largely because we are seldom let in to their world. They see us as old, just as I saw my Mum and Dad as old. Neither of my kids like cards, but they like money and like the idea of owning something of worth down the track. I don't care at all as long as they love us and are good hearts. Think waaaaay to many generalizations get made about todays youth because they communicate so differently and often remotely. Oh, and I love the rise and rise of sports cards. I bought some when everyone in the early 2000's was saying it was nuts to do so, that the opportunity of the 80's had gone and everything was overpriced. Am totally happy for a 67' muscle car to be worth a million dollars, and a 52 Topps Mantle similarly to have desirability and high end worth. Don't want to spend big money? There are plenty of 52' Topps cards you can buy cheap and even collect most of your team that way. Not everyone gets to have a 52' Mantle because they've somehow earned the right though their collecting chops, ALL highly desired cards have carried a significant premium which is why even back in the day people wouldn't shell out what would now be considered peanuts for them. The opportunity is always NOW. Later is good for regrets. Last edited by 68Hawk; 01-18-2021 at 11:24 PM. |
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Those commenting on how wonderful and great the youth of today is usually comes from only those with kids. Once you have children, your judgement of course becomes extremely partial and biased, and understandably so. |
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They are definitely not all wonderful and great, however in particular the observation that they are disconnected or unknowing of recent history and the past is not particularly accurate in my experience. My kids are not unicorns in their knowledge and tastes in music, in fact I would make the crazy generalization that no generation has ever had more eclectic and more rounded taste and knowledge of music genres. That is largely based on hearing their jams coming from their rooms, ear pods, and pounding car chasis over the last 5-10 years. I would also offer the following. While many kids today don't verbalize or make great conversationalists, that doesn't mean they aren't observing and contextualizing and sharing those thoughts amongst eachother. Don't mistake a lack of interest in talking with their folks or to other random adults with lack of awareness. |
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And yes a lot of times, they don't verbalize their interests unless they suddenly discover that you also have said interests. They are extremely aware and impressionable of everything going on around them!
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Why is everyone talking about being a kid like you weren't one too. I highly doubt any of you (or at least for your sake I hope this is not true for you) emulated or felt encouraged to mirror your parents. Where did your fire go that you are now talking about how kids don't appreciate XYZ? I'll tell you where it went, you got old and became your parents, the single worst thing that the teenage mind can fathom. And now you're falling further down the rabbit hole as you get older until you wake up one day and realize you're wearing the same pajamas your dad did when he woke up at night to ask you to turn down the stereo.
Some of us were cool once, I'm sure. How many adults did you find yourself wanting to engage in great conversations with? The great conversations were reserved for your buddies. What an odd view of youth. Last edited by packs; 01-19-2021 at 09:33 AM. |
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And because every post should include a pic....
When I bought my wife her engagement diamond back in 2001, she said I should have my own special engagement 'thing' as well. Within a couple days I found this guy, sitting in a GAI 2.5 holder. They were super fresh to TPG at the time and I thought there was an excellent chance the card was fine and had just found it's way in to their holders to maximize grade. Well, it was my kind of 'great looking for the grade' card and every cent we could afford (sort of afford ![]() Probably the only card I could never sell, even though I have promised myself that all my cards should get passed along to the kids where they can maximize the profit by benefiting from inheritance treatment of such valuables. May it be worth $200,000 one day and buy them something wonderful that they can enjoy as much as I enjoy this piece of colorized cardboard. ![]() Last edited by 68Hawk; 01-19-2021 at 09:48 AM. |
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They're your kids, so surprise surprise, OF COURSE they're special little angels that are misunderstood and able to do anything and everything. I don't share that bias. I actually judge others on what they say and do, something most parents cannot objectively do about their own children. Sorry for being honest, but we obviously won't agree. |
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![]() Ad nauseam??? Not sure we hear too much about eachothers children on this site, I was using mine not to gloat but to give reference to ones I know, see, hear, watch in concert with others, and have done so for hundreds of thousands of hours up close over 18 years. I know, terrible lack of perspective from your point of view. Strange how parents with such experience must be terrible 'experts' at such opinions whereas gaining similar experience in other endeavors rates as expertise. LOL, says this 52 year old man. Last edited by 68Hawk; 01-19-2021 at 10:41 AM. |
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![]() Thinking your objective about your own children instead of admitting and accepting your utter bias... now THAT is LOL! |
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Just a quick note: LOL does not mean Lots Of Love, it means Laugh Out Loud.
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Last edited by 68Hawk; 01-19-2021 at 02:55 PM. Reason: Summed up best by just leaving the one sentence |
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It's also kind of strange that the measure of a well rounded person is interest in music and television shows from the 80s.
I mean, come on. Have you forgotten the best years of your life already? I highly doubt there are many boomers on the board who were sitting down with grand pappy to listen to some Cole Porter 78s on the old Vitrola. Or went with memaw to check out some silent films while everyone else was seeing Marlo Brando and John Wayne movies. Wake up, guys. You're old and uncool. It happens. But there's no reason to disparage people who are young and cool just because you aren't. That's where you can break the cycle. Last edited by packs; 01-19-2021 at 10:44 AM. |
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EDIT: I saw this article in the Journal. Slightly Relevant to our recent discussions! https://www.wsj.com/articles/why-we-...DUVlmxKwXvj7Ek
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I can't say I have more than a perfunctory relationship to ANY of my kids friends, they mostly see me as just a resident head of salt and pepper hair they walk past on the way to my kids rooms or basement. But on semi regular occasion I've been given glimpses into their thinking by listening casually from afar or getting some thoughts from my kids about what they talk about - and there's a whole different world going on when they are with their peers. I think that's always important to remember when making characterizations about a generation as each generations seems want to do about the previous. Last edited by 68Hawk; 01-19-2021 at 07:28 AM. |
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