A most difficult thread- helping a friend, Bill Hedin

[calvindog]

If I can pay 50% of my income to federal, state, and local taxes knowing that some of it will be going toward "entitlements" to certain people I don't respect -- and keep my mouth shut about it all the while -- somehow I suspect the same can be done regarding a few bucks to help a friend in need. Maybe it's time to lock the thread and move on?

[ullmandds]

agreed...the timing of this thread is/was unfortunate...and in retrospect I'm sorry I opened my mouth.

Pls shut thread!

[53Browns]

CalvinDog said it perfectly!

[Jay Wolt]

Originally Posted by calvindog

Maybe it's time to lock the thread and move on?

Agree 100%
Isn't today the day of the funeral?
Lets have all the Bill Hedin "stockholders" give him some peace & quiet!

[Leon]

Unfortunately, this is one of those very sad situations that the board goes through every now and then. Bill has told me he doesn't want the donations but I am hoping that he will change his mind. Rest assured that all of the money will go to him or get refunded. I might give it 2-3 days to contact Bill and try to get it worked out. I won't be bothering him today. I have had several (not just 3-4) PM's, emails and other correspondence concerning this issue. Almost all in support, but a few not. I did the best I could. This is one of those divided situations where no matter what decision is made, there will be quite a few folks not happy. I don't think anyone that so thoughtfully donated did it without the utmost respect and caring. Everyone wanted to help our board member and fellow collector. That being said, many folks also appreciated knowing all of the situation. At this point I think locking the thread is the right thing to do. Like so many difficult situations on the board, this too shall pass. Once again my sincere condolences to Bill, his family and friends.