A most difficult thread- helping a friend, Bill Hedin

[calvindog]

Originally Posted by whitehse

I may not post here much but I read the boards several times a day. Last week I was so proud of these boards and today I feel ashamed of these boards.

If you gave, you gave it to the man to use the money as he sees fit. As I said before, take your blessings for the giving that you did and let Bill deal with whatever comes his way regarding the handling of the money. For God sake, the man just lost his wife. Leave him alone to grieve in peace.

Andrew White

I don't know what is more bizarre: discussing these issues publicly while the man prepares to bury his wife or waxing philosophical about sending in this conundrum to the "The Ethicist" column at the New York Times.

[ullmandds]

Jim...totally agree! Its surreal.

[Tobacco&Gum]

Originally Posted by calvindog

I don't know what is more bizarre: discussing these issues publicly while the man prepares to bury his wife or waxing philosophical about sending in this conundrum to the "The Ethicist" column at the New York Times.

+1

[Matthew H]

Originally Posted by calvindog

I don't know what is more bizarre: discussing these issues publicly while the man prepares to bury his wife or waxing philosophical about sending in this conundrum to the "The Ethicist" column at the New York Times.

This discussion is bizarre, "The Ethicist" thing is incredibly insane.