B/S/T Etiquette

[ullmandds]

So where is the Dental angle here I'm feeling left out?

[brunswickreeves]

Originally Posted by ullmandds

So where is the Dental angle here I'm feeling left out?

If teeth get kicked in?

[ullmandds]

Originally Posted by brunswickreeves

If teeth get kicked in?

yes! when that happens call the net54 dentalsquad!

[bnorth]

Originally Posted by ullmandds

So where is the Dental angle here I'm feeling left out?

How about reading the entire thread is very similar to getting a cavity fixed without any pain meds.

[nolemmings]

This thread has strayed so far from the original post and its mention of etiquette that I’m not sure why I bother.

It’s acknowledged that the chances of any listing in the net54 B/S/T section leading to a lawsuit are negligible, so that most of what some lawyers here continue to scribe is best saved for lecturing Business Law students at the nearest community college. BTW, there is almost certainly an offer if a b/s/t listing contains all material terms and includes “first to say I’ll take it wins”. Because I have seen this expression used from time to time I trust sellers know the significance of using such language and that they might take heed of caveat venditor. Also, please know that the issue of whether a b/s/t listing is merely an invitation to treat or instead a binding offer can be a question of fact– not necessarily a slam dunk. So there you go net54 members, more legal nuggets for you to consider that have very little to do with etiquette or the practical functions of this forum.

Disturbing to me is some apparently accepted notion that nearly all b/s/t listings here are nothing more than invitations to make an offer, especially when all material terms are expressed in the listing. I believe Leon has stated that a forum member can back out of a deal once or twice but not often without consequences, since we all have things happen. But there is a difference between backing out of a deal and saying there was no deal in the first place. I understand the reluctance of having rigid rules or many rules at all for that matter in the b/s/t arena, but I would appreciate better guidance. Like most people here I could understand some unusual circumstances where I agree to all terms listed and am first to respond but don’t “win” the listing, but to suggest that most listings can be treated as insubstantial and unilaterally changed after someone says they will meet the terms does not instill market confidence, IMO, and certainly seems an affront to etiquette.

[Peter_Spaeth]

Todd I think your concern is misplaced. People want to sell their cards and legally obligated or not, the overwhelming number of sellers are going to sell to the first person who says I'll take it. In other words, the BST works fine in practice. And so does Walmart, even if as a purely legal matter it isn't obligated to fulfill its ads or sticker prices.

That said, I would agree that the usual rule of ETIQUETTE (not law) should be to sell to the first offeror absent a compelling reason not to.

[BobbyStrawberry]

Originally Posted by Peter_Spaeth

Todd I think your concern is misplaced. People want to sell their cards and legally obligated or not, the overwhelming number of sellers are going to sell to the first person who says I'll take it. In other words, the BST works fine in practice. And so does Walmart, even if as a purely legal matter it isn't obligated to fulfill its ads or sticker prices.

That said, I would agree that the usual rule of ETIQUETTE (not law) should be to sell to the first offeror absent a compelling reason not to.

This is America 2025. Etiquette is passé.

[nolemmings]

Originally Posted by Peter_Spaeth

Todd I think your concern is misplaced. People want to sell their cards and legally obligated or not, the overwhelming number of sellers are going to sell to the first person who says I'll take it. In other words, the BST works fine in practice. And so does Walmart, even if as a purely legal matter it isn't obligated to fulfill its ads or sticker prices.

That said, I would agree that the usual rule of ETIQUETTE (not law) should be to sell to the first offeror absent a compelling reason not to.

Then I guess I am wondering why there was a need to go on ad nauseum with discussions on the law when they have little to no practical application to the topic at hand. Belaboring them seems to imply that they should be followed here, when the rule of thumb is just the opposite.

[Peter_Spaeth]

Originally Posted by nolemmings

Then I guess I am wondering why there was a need to go on ad nauseum with discussions on the law when they have little to no practical application to the topic at hand. Belaboring them seems to imply that they should be followed here, when the rule of thumb is just the opposite.

Sometimes discussions just evolve and take on a life of their own, you know that.

[nolemmings]

Originally Posted by Peter_Spaeth

Sometimes discussions just evolve and take on a life of their own, you know that.

Yeah, well in many instances discussions devolve too. Even though the fact pattern in the original post led to a pretty clear-cut answer, I believe there was plenty of fruit on the tree to discuss that was spoiled because of how the thread took on a life of its own, as you say.

[OhioLawyerF5]

Originally Posted by nolemmings

Then I guess I am wondering why there was a need to go on ad nauseum with discussions on the law when they have little to no practical application to the topic at hand. Belaboring them seems to imply that they should be followed here, when the rule of thumb is just the opposite.

First, some people enjoy discussing things. And that's ok. Even if it wasn't the original question.

Second, it might be the exception that someone would not sell to the first person, but if that first person is a known scammer on one of your listings, I bet you would be glad to have read this discussion. So discussing something that isn't the norm is helpful for those situations that arise that are outside the norm.

[raulus]

Originally Posted by OhioLawyerF5

First, some people enjoy discussing things. And that's ok. Even if it wasn't the original question.

Second, it might be the exception that someone would not sell to the first person, but if that first person is a known scammer on one of your listings, I bet you would be glad to have read this discussion. So discussing something that isn't the norm is helpful for those situations that arise that are outside the norm.

I’ll agree with Ohio on this one. It’s definitely been educational, if a bit tedious as times.

[nolemmings]

Originally Posted by OhioLawyerF5

First, some people enjoy discussing things. And that's ok. Even if it wasn't the original question.

Second, it might be the exception that someone would not sell to the first person, but if that first person is a known scammer on one of your listings, I bet you would be glad to have read this discussion. So discussing something that isn't the norm is helpful for those situations that arise that are outside the norm.

I can assure you I am not glad to have read this thread nor will I find it useful for any purposes here. You taught me nothing about the law and it is doubtful you ever will. I already was aware of the outlier situations that might cause someone to refuse a sale or purchase– I didn’t need a legal opinion to say I never had an obligation to perform in the first place, and I fully understand that circumstances can justify a transaction falling through whether legally binding or not. I would wager that most everyone here was similarly informed without being told they needn’t worry much about their b/s/t listings because absent exceptional circumstances they had the law on their side. IMO, you sucked all of the oxygen out of the room and kept pounding a nail into a board that was almost certainly never going to be used on the job, when there could have been meaningful discussion on how b/s/t listings could be generally improved or clarified. A wasted opportunity, but if others find it worthwhile, so be it.

[ullmandds]

Originally Posted by nolemmings

This thread has strayed so far from the original post and its mention of etiquette that I’m not sure why I bother.

It’s acknowledged that the chances of any listing in the net54 B/S/T section leading to a lawsuit are negligible, so that most of what some lawyers here continue to scribe is best saved for lecturing Business Law students at the nearest community college. BTW, there is almost certainly an offer if a b/s/t listing contains all material terms and includes “first to say I’ll take it wins”. Because I have seen this expression used from time to time I trust sellers know the significance of using such language and that they might take heed of caveat venditor. Also, please know that the issue of whether a b/s/t listing is merely an invitation to treat or instead a binding offer can be a question of fact– not necessarily a slam dunk. So there you go net54 members, more legal nuggets for you to consider that have very little to do with etiquette or the practical functions of this forum.

Disturbing to me is some apparently accepted notion that nearly all b/s/t listings here are nothing more than invitations to make an offer, especially when all material terms are expressed in the listing. I believe Leon has stated that a forum member can back out of a deal once or twice but not often without consequences, since we all have things happen. But there is a difference between backing out of a deal and saying there was no deal in the first place. I understand the reluctance of having rigid rules or many rules at all for that matter in the b/s/t arena, but I would appreciate better guidance. Like most people here I could understand some unusual circumstances where I agree to all terms listed and am first to respond but don’t “win” the listing, but to suggest that most listings can be treated as insubstantial and unilaterally changed after someone says they will meet the terms does not instill market confidence, IMO, and certainly seems an affront to etiquette.

+1

[OhioLawyerF5]

Originally Posted by nolemmings

BTW, there is almost certainly an offer if a b/s/t listing contains all material terms and includes “first to say I’ll take it wins”.

Which is what I have been saying.

Disturbing to me is some apparently accepted notion that nearly all b/s/t listings here are nothing more than invitations to make an offer, especially when all material terms are expressed in the listing.

Disturbing or not, that is the law. Even with all material terms expressed in the listing, unless it says "first to say I'll take it wins," (or some other clearly stated intention to be bound by anyone who accepts) it is nothing more than an invitation to make an offer under the law. Plain and simple.

Like Peter said, most agree that they will nearly always sell to the first person. But this becomes important when the first person is not someone you would want to do business with.

[Leon]

Originally Posted by nolemmings

This thread has strayed so far from the original post and its mention of etiquette that I’m not sure why I bother.

It’s acknowledged that the chances of any listing in the net54 B/S/T section leading to a lawsuit are negligible, so that most of what some lawyers here continue to scribe is best saved for lecturing Business Law students at the nearest community college. BTW, there is almost certainly an offer if a b/s/t listing contains all material terms and includes “first to say I’ll take it wins”. Because I have seen this expression used from time to time I trust sellers know the significance of using such language and that they might take heed of caveat venditor. Also, please know that the issue of whether a b/s/t listing is merely an invitation to treat or instead a binding offer can be a question of fact– not necessarily a slam dunk. So there you go net54 members, more legal nuggets for you to consider that have very little to do with etiquette or the practical functions of this forum.

Disturbing to me is some apparently accepted notion that nearly all b/s/t listings here are nothing more than invitations to make an offer, especially when all material terms are expressed in the listing. I believe Leon has stated that a forum member can back out of a deal once or twice but not often without consequences, since we all have things happen. But there is a difference between backing out of a deal and saying there was no deal in the first place. I understand the reluctance of having rigid rules or many rules at all for that matter in the b/s/t arena, but I would appreciate better guidance. Like most people here I could understand some unusual circumstances where I agree to all terms listed and am first to respond but don’t “win” the listing, but to suggest that most listings can be treated as insubstantial and unilaterally changed after someone says they will meet the terms does not instill market confidence, IMO, and certainly seems an affront to etiquette.

I certainly understand (not the law part ) what you are saying. IF I seemed to insinuate backing out of a deal, when no money has changed hands and/or the item hasn't shipped yet, is ok, it's not.
It's just that I feel giving a grace is the right way to do it. We are all super passionate. I had a board member crying over a deal one time. So, I let him undo it. It was a 30k+ deal too. He is still on the forum and is a good hobby friend. But I would have let anyone back out for the right reasons. Also, anyone who backs out of a legitimate deal will, at least get an infraciton on the forum. They aren't used often but they are for public viewing on anyone's profile. And, after thinking about it, if anyone backed out twice, without some extraordinary reason, they will be banned. Making a deal on the forum should always be followed through with. In my experience, it is very rare for someone to back out of deal on the BST. (other than a time-stamp dispute LOL, had to circle back)

I am on my 3rd bag of Shotwell Checkers Popcorn!

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[ullmandds]

Originally Posted by bnorth

How about reading the entire thread is very similar to getting a cavity fixed without any pain meds.

love this! change filling to root canal for effect!!!!