BST etiquette am I wrong

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Originally Posted by Peter_Spaeth

What do the words, "i'll take it," convey if not an intention to take it? This just isn't complicated IMO. The man said I'll take it, a follow up message was sent clarifying if he was good with no fee, the card was still available at that point, give the man a chance to finalize the deal. Good Lord, the pretzel twisting here is ridiculous IMO.

I think the bigger issue is the radio silence. We all have our own idea around what is an appropriate window to give someone. I don’t think it’s unreasonable to move on if the counterparty has gone dark and isn’t responding to requests to confirm key details.