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This is why I do not believe anything an eBay buyer tells me:
________made you an offer 6 Nov 2021 at 5:28:20pm PDT Offer Price: $300.00 ( 1 x $300.00 ) Buyer's Message: Best i can do , if it helps, either way thanks. _______made you an offer 6 Nov 2021 at 6:19:05pm PDT Offer Price: $325.00 ( 1 x $325.00 ) Offer Declined6 Nov 2021 at 5:28:20pm PDT _______made you an offer6 Nov 2021 at 6:19:16pm PDT Offer Price: $351.00 ( 1 x $351.00 ) So the best he can do is $300...until fifty minutes later? What changed? Perhaps a sudden inheritance? Maybe found some change in the couch cushions? And why do these idiots think I care what "the best [they] can do is" anyway? That's a stupid argument. "Yeah, the best I can do is to get to work at 10:00, boss. Whaddaya mean I'm fired?" The outright lying on eBay has gotten much worse with the hobby boom. Lots of newbies who have no connection with the hobby and no compunctions about flat-out lying to get what they want. That, plus they do not know how to read or simply do not bother. I had one newbie order then cancel on 20+ cards because he was pissed at what eBay's Global Shipping charged him. He told me what he thought was reasonable and since it was a profitable enough sale I offered him a refund to that cost but he still reneged. Another guy thought he was buying a dozen $10 cards for $10 just because they were depicted in a scan, despite the listing stating that he is bidding on one card. His excuse was that he didn't read the description...combined with the accusation that I was doing something deceptive. Yeah, when I don't read something I always blame it on someone else: "Why no, officer, I did not read that no parking sign...but had I read it I KNOW it would have been deceptively worded." Now, all of you kids get off my lawn!
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They say best I can do. They mean best I want to do.
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That is not a phenomena unique to ebay.
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I know, but I was trying to stay on-topic.
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There are plenty of horrid sellers on ebay, who keep those buyers company.
The problems with ebay are parallel to those of highway driving: it's popular, but you have to hop on with a bunch of idiots who ruin the experience. Trent King |
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Welcome to the world of EBay
This is also why some sellers will charge over market value. Because many uneducated collectors/investors will happily pay it.
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Thanks all Jeff Kuhr https://www.flickr.com/photos/144250058@N05/ Looking for 1920 Heading Home Ruth Cards 1920s Advertising Card Babe Ruth/Carl Mays All Stars Throwing Pose 1917-20 Felix Mendelssohn Babe Ruth 1921 Frederick Foto Ruth Rare early Ruth Cards and Postcards Rare early Joe Jackson Cards and Postcards 1910 Old Mills Joe Jackson 1914 Boston Garter Joe Jackson 1911 Pinkerton Joe Jackson Last edited by mrreality68; 11-07-2021 at 04:06 PM. |
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I see this with tickets these days. There is a BOOM in uneducated collectors right now being taken full advantage of. The hobby is in a sad state right now.
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I've bought and sold on ebay, many times over the years. Perhaps the recent card boom has brought out a crappy new crop of buyers. But over the past 20 years, I would say there are a lot more bad sellers than buyers.
So many (countless) sellers hide flaws, lie about condition and conveniently leave things out of their pictures and descriptions. And some of their packaging/shipping methods defy all logic. On the flip-side, I can't recall ever having a buyer refuse to pay, make a return, or renege on a transaction. Just lucky, I suppose. Last edited by perezfan; 11-07-2021 at 03:43 PM. |
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Mark (Perez Fan)- You are spot on. A couple weeks ago, I messaged an
ebay seller about a raw 52 Bowman Don Newcombe. We hadn't done past business, so I introduced myself and asked if there were any creases his photo didn't show, and to expand on the flaws/weaknesses of the card. I was as polite as could be and told him I liked his card... so, he emailed back and flatly stated he "didn't want to be held accountable" for any detail about his card! He also made excuses (poor eyesight) about not being able to answer very basic questions, and flatly refused to answer. THIS is why I rarely do business on that site. Trent King |
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So many bad sellers. The annoying thing now is that eBay removes valid negative feedback now. Negative feedback rarely sticks in eBay anymore. They realized that if they just delete all the negative feedback that buyers have more confidence in making purchases on eBay. I had a seller list a card as mint condition that showed up with no less than 3 creases on it. Seller fought me and refused to accept a return. EBay customer service got involved forced him to accept a return. So I shipped it back. Tracking showed delivered but eBay's system had a glitch that wouldn't connect the tracking status to the case number, so seller tried again to keep both my money AND the card now. Had to prove to ebay that it was delivered weeks later after he refused to refund. Let negative feedback. Poof, it was gone a few days later. Dude has 100% positive feedback now despite being the shit of the earth. This is happening in the vast majority of cases now. Ebay just removes negative feedback. |
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I meant some sellers will charge over market value and some buyers will buy it over the current market value
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Thanks all Jeff Kuhr https://www.flickr.com/photos/144250058@N05/ Looking for 1920 Heading Home Ruth Cards 1920s Advertising Card Babe Ruth/Carl Mays All Stars Throwing Pose 1917-20 Felix Mendelssohn Babe Ruth 1921 Frederick Foto Ruth Rare early Ruth Cards and Postcards Rare early Joe Jackson Cards and Postcards 1910 Old Mills Joe Jackson 1914 Boston Garter Joe Jackson 1911 Pinkerton Joe Jackson |
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Sellers do the exact same thing. I've seen many say "thats the lowest I can go" then they end up going lower.
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Caveat - this was not on a card
I had a seller just last week accept my offer on a new in box item last week. I paid and the following day they apologized and said the item isn't available because they just tested the last one they had and it doesn't work. I could wait 15-20 days for new stock or get a refund. I said I'd wait (since it was a Christmas gift so no rush) but didn't tell them that. But I also asked why they tested an item that was new in original sealed box? No answer on the testing The next day its marked as shipped without tracking. I asked what changed and they said they have to mark it because ebay asks them to ship everyday. Long story short...this crap is much worse than trying to get a deal as a buyer in my opinion. After a few days I requested a refund today, we will see where this mess goes from here. Sent from my SM-G960U using Tapatalk |
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I've been selling vinyl records on eBay. While slightly different than sports cards, the similarities with listings/customer interactions/sales are abundant.
They're described accurately, graded conservatively, and listed with numerous (clear, not blurry) pictures. I am responsive to messages and communicate professionally. The records are packaged securely and shipped the next business day - without exception. Perhaps not coincidentally, I have nearly zero issues with any of my transactions.
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There are, of course more good sellers than bad. But the bad ones tend to stick in your memory bank a lot longer, haha. Needless to say, it shouldn't be nearly as difficult as they make it. |
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Most basic rule of negotiating is that when you tell the other side "this is my best and final" or "this is as good as I can do" you don't back off that, or you lose 100% of your credibility.
On ebay I've done pretty well with prewar. Modern cards? The wild west. Buyers are scammers and people pulling crap I've seen 100 times before. I assume young guys wheeling and dealing. I laugh at their transparent hijinks and silly stunts. Refuse to let them aggravate me. At the first sniff of trouble we are done. I'd rather sell my card tp an honorable person for less. Last edited by Snapolit1; 11-07-2021 at 05:51 PM. |
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No, the average buyer is not the way that you portray them. I have sold to over 1000 eBay buyers in the past year, and 99% of are smooth transactions, with no problems. No matter what you do or where you sell, there will always be the 1% who are losers, but the overwhelming % of them are good people.
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Not gonna lie, I've always thought listings like this are at least a little deceptive. If your auction photo and title don't clearly convey exactly what is being sold - that, is you're requiring people to obtain necessary information from the description - you're asking for trouble. And, for a lot of sellers (not saying you), they're hoping to prey on people who don't read descriptions because they expect titles and photos to be complete.
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Not intelligence, just time. Listing each cheap card singly is a huge time-suck.
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Looks like a you don’t have time they don’t have time situation.
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I might also add that even saying "RP" could be misleading, primarily to someone newer to the hobby. I suppose it comes down to knowing your audience, but it's eBay and the general public. Another annoyance is finding down at the bottom of the description that the seller found said item in an attic and it may or may not be real, giving false hope to someone. |
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Those of whom you complain about are mere Grasshoppers...
Chill, Master Net54'ers... were you not once a Grasshopper as they are now? Patience, your reward will be in educating, guiding, and nurturing these students. OK, if you didn't watch Kung Fu as a kid, maybe watch this, and then watch a few season 1 episodes... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J37QUZjOjF8 Last edited by FrankWakefield; 11-08-2021 at 05:40 PM. |
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You can't educate, guide and nurture stupid.
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What gets me is when a seller lists his card for $7.95 with make an offer, thats worth maybe $3 but I need for a not very important variation and I offer $5 and the seller counters at $7.50.
Why even have make an offer if you are only going to discount it 45 cents?
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Some people are better negotiators than others. Some enjoy the art of the deal, the back & forth. For some, it's a put off. When in person, it's obviously easier to read each other, but online you can't.
Some sellers price a bit higher, leaving room negotiation. They know that discussion of price goes down, not up. You can't know everyone's situation. Was the person on a budget, but then convinced their spouse to spend a bit more? Maybe they went and studied comps and realized they'd have to go higher. Maybe they are just being deceitful. Who knows. Last edited by GrewUpWithJunkWax; 11-08-2021 at 01:16 PM. |
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Def see some weirdness on eBay. I was selling some silver coins recently and some guy from Poland reached out to me and asked if I could buy him some chemical cleaner that he can’t get in Poland and would pay well for it. I don’t now if it was an honest question from a coin collector or whether the CIA would be at my door tomorrow kicking it down. Certainly weird. Sorry dude.
I agree with someone above that a lot of the stupidity is just inquiries. Can you shut auction down and sell to me. I can get out the money but not will take a few days to get the pay pal arranged. That kind of stuff. I also appreciate people lecturing me about what it’s worth when I can see EBay recent sales perfectly well. Last edited by Snapolit1; 11-08-2021 at 01:32 PM. |
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USPS will only allow a PWE to be 1/4 inch thick. If you put a piece of cardboard in there you are going to exceed that and if so shipping will be charged as a package. I have had to pay postage due many times from a seller who tried to put cardboard in an envelope and mail it with just a stamp.
A PWE is principally used to mail letters, and they are sorted through mechanical feeders. USPS has a special 85 cent stamp you can use to have the PWE hand sorted. My local post office advised that you should also mark the envelope NON MACHINABLE in red on the left side. Sent from my SM-G955U using Tapatalk |
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I think its been going on forever...negotiating / bargaining/ try to chew down a price/ whatever you want to call it....buts its not just ebay... it happens in a lot of places ...
.walk into a card show or a card shop to sell a card to a dealer, - what do you want for it ? whats the best you will let it go ?, what are you into the card for ?, I cant go a penny more ..Throw out a number...throw out a bigger number, seems like nothing new to me |
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Also, the PO raised the price of non-machinable letters to 30 cents, so you will need one of the new 88 cent stamps for a one ounce non-machinable letter. In addition, do not mark envelopes that have the printed eBay Standard Envelope postage as non-machinable. These letters are machinable, and if you mark them non-machinable, your buyer will need to pay a postage due charge. These letters are tracked when they go through the letter processing machines at the entry and the destination processing plants. If you mark them as non-machinable, they don't go through the machines and they will not be tracked. The bar-codes on these letters are not able to be scanned by the clerks scanners or the carriers scanners - they are only detected by the letter processing machines. The eBay Standard Envelopes are only meant to be used on machinable letters.
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A toploader isn't flexible enough to avoid being non-machinable. Unless they've changed it, there's a pitfall for that 1/4 inch thing. if it's 1/4 + it counts as a package. Especially if it isn't flexible. BUT If it's under 3/4 and isn't going priority the tracking number given through click and ship isn't allowed. Fortunately the guy who bought the smallish print I sold worked for the government so he totally understood when I explained the delay and why the package was much stiffer and had a single packing peanut inside. It cost extra but I just paid it the whole thing was complicated enough. The postmaster and I had a nice discussion about the conflicting regs, and how I'd seen clerks offer the unavailable delivery confirmation on first class flats over the counter. His biggest concern was that whoever made my package be returned for postage had used a rate that had been obsolete for about a year! |
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![]() That doesn't mean I should NOT do this though. Just that they do seem to be flexible enough to go through when packaged appropriately. To follow on to another point you made. If you don't like what an PO employee is telling you, ask a different one. They might even tell you how to send a small box of cards using a flat rate envelope. ![]() |
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That is very likely true. Just like the interpretations of the regulations seem to vary from one PO or PO worker to another. I was noting that the machines could physically process them. |
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The piece I had was a photo mailer, about 6x9, with a print and two cardboard stiffeners. It was not at all flexible. The old rule for flats (Now large envelopes) required something like more than 1/4 inch of droop when it was held by one end over hanging a countertop. For letters it was a certain radius it had to go around in the machine. I always sent cards in either a toploader or sleeved and between two pieces of cardboard. And yes, small lots up to about 400 cards went in small flat rate boxes. (And later when they got expensive, a small flat rate box inside a flat rate envelope. Doable with the smallest flat rate box ) That particular bit of mail I did discuss with a clerk first, who basically said my printouts of the appropriate page from the Domestic Mail Manual (The post offices rule book) didn't matter. The guy I ended up talking to was the postmaster for the entire city, so not much room to ask to see someone else. He had his own printout of a different section. Mine was the standards for what was and wasn't a package, his was for what made a first class package qualify for delivery confirmation. Ebays click and ship system at the time automatically added DC to everything, even if it didn't qualify. I shipped enough odd stuff that I knew the rules pretty well. But those rules have lots of room for interpretation. Like how I used to send larger lots of cards media mail since it allowed "unbound printed matter" After a couple years the main office opened one and told me I couldn't do that anymore. My argument that cards qualified as educational materials was not agreed with... |
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