After reading a couple of the follow ups in your Show Us thread, I'm afraid that I have some distressing news ... the don't ask, don't tell Ostrich mind set, is alive, and well in 2009 ... not only that, they don't understand what a non debate thread means.
However, there is a plus side.
A few more like yourself, have joined the fighters for the hobby in 1990.
Not a bad group by the way, people like Lew Lipset, Larry Fritsch, Mark Macrae, and a few others.
The questions are being asked.
If you don't ask the questions ... you won't get any answers.
No one is accusing any one!
... But if the shoe fits???
Why are some people afraid of the questions?
Are they afraid of what might be found out?