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ty_cobbAs a collector I know these disputes can arise 
and my advise is to treat the other party in the 
sale as you would like to be treated. If things 
still don't work out , sometimes its better to 
forgive and forget, strangely enough good things
seem to happen soon after the bad. 
As a father I share Bob's concerns and am deeply
troubled, and I cannot see why a baseball card
transaction needs to involve the wife and children.