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runscottI eventually tell them that if they don't want the item, I understand, things happen, but I will have to file a non-paying bidder with ebay in order to get my fees back.
I've had the following three results: They respond saying they're sorry and they send payment, they respond telling me they had unexpected financial problems and appreciate my understanding, or they don't respond at all in which case I file NPB with ebay and get my money back. Maybe I've just been lucky, but I haven't gotten negative feedback from this yet.