[Den*nis O*Brien]

---at 73 I experience the very same problems. All of the posters have been expressing genuine concern and solid advice. I look for cards & associated items all the time ....for days and always say "Who came in this house and stole THAT item!!!". My family thinks it is a such a common occurrence that they laugh at my frustration. I get reminded that it is always in the last place you look. And every time it is. I just spent a solid week looking for my wallet....it was in a crack between the seats in the pick up.....the last place my wife looked. I wish you all the best going forward and I agree with Leon that the pressure of the group submissions probably doesn't help the situation overall.
Sincerely, Dennis