Who the Hell are we to judge. I'd be a freakin' basket case in his shoes.
If Bill wants to use some of the $ to purchase cards, gold or sprockets as a nest egg for the kids, I'm all for that. My donation wasn't exclusively for his beloved's burial. But any ancillary family purchases Bill deems necessary, without restriction.
Heck, many of us have made sports "investments" under the premise they could be liquidated as an emergency fund, college expenses etc. It's not any different than throwing it into a passbook account.
There is no rehearsal for this thing. I implore you guys to please let this now single father grieve as he sees fit. Thanks
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