[mintacular]

I believe a buyer has 7-10 days to pay according to the rules. While I love to receive a payment before then I do not bother asking for payment until that time span expires, plus I think eBay sends a pestering automated emails during the 7-10 day span....Perhaps you should readjust your expectations in terms of when you think a payment should come through...I would love if eBay would offer bonus bucks to fast payers...

I do feel for you that as a seller you are at the whim of the buyer with the fbk system although I think you can "reply" to fbk left....My worst Ebay moment was I sold a '71 midgrade set (700+ cards) that was missing one low # common and the guy negged me, I emailed politely and he retracted it but still....