While I don't do it often I think this thread has run it's course. It's not fair to the family for, what was good discussion, to turn into a pissing match between some folks. At the end of the day the family is happy and got exactly what they wanted, transparency. The small windfall was fun too, I am sure
. It's great they have become closer from it and I am sure, if you asked them, that is what they would tell you. It's what they told me. best regards