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Archive 09-13-2007 05:38 PM

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Posted By: <b>jay behrens</b><p>The twins were lost in a miscarriage last night. Even though she was 5 months along, the doctors were unable to save either one. She was just in to see the doctor Thursday. He said all was well and they were girls. We had names picked out already, this made it really hard. Their names were Aryanna Audrey and Annika Lillian.<br /><br />Anyone know where I can trade my collection to get them back?<br /><br />Jay<br /><br />The richest person is not the one who has the most, but the one who needs the least.

Archive 09-13-2007 05:42 PM

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Posted By: <b>Jeff Lichtman</b><p>Jay, sorry to hear that news. As a father who had twins born 10 weeks early, I can tell you that nothing is ever easy when it comes to twins. Hang in there and sorry for your loss.

Archive 09-13-2007 05:45 PM

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Posted By: <b>Mark Evans</b><p>My sincerest sympathies. Mark

Archive 09-13-2007 05:47 PM

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Posted By: <b>Todd Schultz</b><p>as I had a bad feeling when I saw who was posting. I am very sorry for your loss Jay.

Archive 09-13-2007 05:49 PM

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Posted By: <b>Clint</b><p>Jay, I'm so sorry for your loss.<br /><br />-Clint

Archive 09-13-2007 05:53 PM

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Posted By: <b>JimCrandell</b><p>Jay,<br /><br />I am very sad to hear that. My sincere sympathies.<br /><br />Jim

Archive 09-13-2007 05:58 PM

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Posted By: <b>peter chao</b><p>Jay,<br /><br />You suffered two horrible blows...I am glad though that you shared these blows with us.<br /><br />Peter C.

Archive 09-13-2007 06:00 PM

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Posted By: <b>Al Simeone</b><p>Jay,<br />Our hearts and deep sympathy go out to you and yours<br />in your time of sadness.

Archive 09-13-2007 06:00 PM

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Posted By: <b>Bob Pomilla</b><p>Terrible news, Jay. My sincere, deepest sympathies.

Archive 09-13-2007 06:02 PM

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Posted By: <b>barrysloate</b><p>Jay- that is dreadful news. My sympathies to you both.

Archive 09-13-2007 06:05 PM

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Posted By: <b>Wesley</b><p>That is horrible news, Jay. Sorry for your great loss.

Archive 09-13-2007 06:07 PM

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Posted By: <b>rand</b><p>Jay, very sorry to hear the news, maybe there was a higher calling. regards

Archive 09-13-2007 06:08 PM

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Posted By: <b>Dave F</b><p>Same here...life can be quite wicked at times....sincere regards

Archive 09-13-2007 06:08 PM

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Posted By: <b>cmoking</b><p>I'm speechless. Very sad.

Archive 09-13-2007 06:14 PM

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Posted By: <b>barry arnold</b><p>my deepest condolences, Jay<br /><br />in sympathy,<br />barry

Archive 09-13-2007 06:22 PM

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Posted By: <b>Kenny Cole</b><p>Jay,<br /><br />I am so sorry to hear about your loss. My deepest sympathies.<br /><br />Kenny Cole

Archive 09-13-2007 06:27 PM

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Posted By: <b>Patrick McMenemy</b><p>Jay,<br /><br />So sorry to hear of your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.<br /><br />Patrick

Archive 09-13-2007 06:29 PM

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Posted By: <b>Doug</b><p>Jay, my most sincere condolences. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.<br /><br />Doug

Archive 09-13-2007 06:30 PM

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Posted By: <b>Steve Dawson</b><p>Jay, <br /><br />I just don't know what to say. Can't come close to imagining what you and your wife are going through right now. Just keep Aryanna and Annika in your hearts, and they'll always be with you.<br /><br />My thoughts and prayers are with you and your wife.<br /><br />Steve

Archive 09-13-2007 06:32 PM

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Posted By: <b>anthony</b><p>sorry for your loss jay...<br />

Archive 09-13-2007 06:32 PM

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Posted By: <b>Dave S</b><p>Life often seems so unfair, so sad. My sincerest condolences to you and the Mrs.

Archive 09-13-2007 06:39 PM

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Posted By: <b>John S</b><p>Jay,<br /><br />Very sorry for your loss.<br /><br />

Archive 09-13-2007 06:40 PM

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Posted By: <b>Brad</b><p>Jay,<br /><br />Sorry to hear about your loss.<br /><br />Brad<br />

Archive 09-13-2007 06:42 PM

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Posted By: <b>Neal</b><p>Very sorry for the terrible loss you and your wife are going through!<br /><br />God Bless you both!

Archive 09-13-2007 06:53 PM

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Posted By: <b>Scott T</b><p>We will keep you in our prayers.<br><br>Scott <br />

Archive 09-13-2007 06:58 PM

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Posted By: <b>PC</b><p>Jay -- I have been there before, three times. I can only say that while you will probably always think of what might have been (I know I do), the pain does lessen over time, and life will go on for both of you.<br /><br />I think each of you will discover there are many, many people who have gone through what you're experiencing. They will be people you know well, and people you've never met -- a friend's sister, a cousin, etc. I'm certain all of them would be happy to talk with either of you about it, if you need to. It will help.<br /><br />And please do not let her (or yourself) focus on "what if's", or start blaming yourselves. This was out of your control -- a million things had to go perfectly right, and only one thing had to go wrong. This happened because it did, not because of something you did or didn't do.<br /><br /><br />

Archive 09-13-2007 07:00 PM

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Posted By: <b>Bob Freedman</b><p>You and your wife are in my prayers.

Archive 09-13-2007 07:01 PM

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Posted By: <b>Albert Liu</b><p>Jay,<br /><br />As a father myself, I am sad to hear about your loss. Hang in there!<br /><br />Albert

Archive 09-13-2007 07:02 PM

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Posted By: <b>Frank C</b><p>sorry for your loss

Archive 09-13-2007 07:03 PM

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Posted By: <b>boxingcardman</b><p>so sorry for your loss.

Archive 09-13-2007 07:08 PM

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Posted By: <b>Corey R. Shanus</b><p>We went through that once, though at an earlier stage, and the pain was terrible. I can only imagine what you and wife are going through. My sincerest sympathies to you both.

Archive 09-13-2007 07:09 PM

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Posted By: <b>Joe D.</b><p>Jay,<br /><br />That is very very sad news.<br /><br />My heart goes out to you and mom during this tough time.<br /><br /><br />Sincerely,<br />Joe

Archive 09-13-2007 07:11 PM

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Posted By: <b>jay behrens</b><p>It's not the first miscarriage for me. When I was married my ex-wife had a miscarriage but it was only about 8 weeks in and we hadn't picked a name yet. Having already picked names makes this especially hard.<br /><br />Jay<br><br>The richest person is not the one who has the most, but the one who needs the least.

Archive 09-13-2007 07:14 PM

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Posted By: <b>Hank Levy</b><p>Jay,<br /><br />I'm sure that there are many of us that would add our collections to yours, if by doing so we had the power to change the outcome. Take comfort in knowing that this community of friends, shares your grief, and hopes that you and your family will give each other the strength needed to deal with the unimaginable pain.<br />During these Jewish High Holy Days, my family will surely say a prayer for you and your family.<br /><br />Hank & Scott

Archive 09-13-2007 07:17 PM

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Posted By: <b>Jimmy</b><p>very sorry for your loss, my thoughts are with you and your family<br /><br />Take care of yourself and hang in there<br /><br />Jimmy

Archive 09-13-2007 07:21 PM

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Posted By: <b>Dan Bretta</b><p>Jay, I am very sorry to hear of your loss. My wife and I have been through it 5 times now with the last miscarriage happening just last month. I know exactly how you feel. I can't tell you how sorry I am.

Archive 09-13-2007 07:35 PM

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Posted By: <b>sagard</b><p>I'm truly sorry for your losses.<br />Soren

Archive 09-13-2007 07:38 PM

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Posted By: <b>James Feagin</b><p>My wife and I are expecting our second child next Tuesday. I can only imagine the anguish that it must be and I offer my complete and total sympathy to you and your significant other.

Archive 09-13-2007 07:56 PM

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Posted By: <b>JimB</b><p>Jay,<br />I am so sorry to hear this. <br />All the best,<br />JimB

Archive 09-13-2007 07:59 PM

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Posted By: <b>Jason L</b><p>I hope that you and your wife are able to soon feel happy again.<br />You are in our thoughts.<br />Thank you for sharing.

Archive 09-13-2007 08:01 PM

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Posted By: <b>J Levine</b><p>Jay,<br />My thoughts and prayers are with you and yours...<br /><br />Joshua

Archive 09-13-2007 08:10 PM

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Posted By: <b>Scott L</b><p>Jay<br />My thoughts and prayers are with you and yours.<br /><br />Scott

Archive 09-13-2007 08:17 PM

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Posted By: <b>peter ullman</b><p>jay...i'm so sorry for your loss.<br /><br />pete ullman

Archive 09-13-2007 08:22 PM

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Posted By: <b>JK</b><p>Dont know what to say other than Im very sorry to hear about this Jay.

Archive 09-13-2007 09:22 PM

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Posted By: <b>dennis</b><p>so sorry to hear of the loss of the twins,my sincere sympathy goes out to you.

Archive 09-13-2007 09:56 PM

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Posted By: <b>Jerry Hrechka</b><p> I'm so very sorry to hear of your loss.

Archive 09-13-2007 10:04 PM

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Posted By: <b>Jason Carota</b><p>Very sorry to hear the news. My condolences to you and yours.

Archive 09-13-2007 10:25 PM

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Posted By: <b>Rob Fouch</b><p>So sorry for your loss, Jay.

Archive 09-13-2007 10:37 PM

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Posted By: <b>Larry</b><p>A heartbreaking moment for anyone to endure, my sincerest condolences to you and your family...This should put things in the proper perspective for all those that forget how fragile and special life is.

Archive 09-13-2007 10:42 PM

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Posted By: <b>Trevor Hocking</b><p>I am so sorry Jay. Our prayers are with you as well.<br /><br />Trevor

Archive 09-13-2007 10:53 PM

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Posted By: <b>Jorge</b><p>Jay as a father of a son i deeply feel your loss. I am very sorry of what has happened.My prayers to you and your family. Be well.<br><br>my collection: <a href="http://s102.photobucket.com/albums/m95/obaks/" target="_new" rel="nofollow">http://s102.photobucket.com/albums/m95/obaks/</a>

Archive 09-13-2007 11:21 PM

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Posted By: <b>Jay</b><p>Jay--What horrible news. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Archive 09-13-2007 11:46 PM

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Posted By: <b>dstudeba</b><p>So sorry Jay, that is horrible. You are in my prayers.

Archive 09-14-2007 12:00 AM

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Posted By: <b>Charlie Barokas</b><p>Jay,<br /><br />Hang in there.<br /><br />Best<br /><br />Charlie

Archive 09-14-2007 12:09 AM

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Posted By: <b>Elliot</b><p>Jay, so sorry to hear the news. I know how excited you were about becoming a dad again. My condolences to you and your wife.<br><br>

Archive 09-14-2007 01:23 AM

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Posted By: <b>B.C.Daniels</b><p>a better day awaits you. Life hits us hard at times but should help make you stronger for it. Sorry to have to read this as well. take a deep breath and move forward in hope.<br><br>BcD <img src="/images/happy.gif" height=14 width=14>

Archive 09-14-2007 04:11 AM

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Posted By: <b>Martin Neal</b><p>Jay,<br /><br /> I am so sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you and your wife.<br /><br />Martin

Archive 09-14-2007 04:43 AM

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Posted By: <b>Paul</b><p>Jay, sorry for your loss. Sincerely, Paul

Archive 09-14-2007 05:26 AM

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Posted By: <b>Mark</b><p>My heart goes out to you, your wife and girls...<br /><br /><br />Mark

Archive 09-14-2007 05:38 AM

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Posted By: <b>Rich Klein</b><p>To make the hurt go away now or forever; but take solace that they were needed somewhere other than this planet. I guarantee they are doing good wherever their spirits went to.<br /><br />Regards<br />Rich

Archive 09-14-2007 05:40 AM

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Posted By: <b>andy becker</b><p>jay,<br />i am very sorry for you loss. you are in my thoughts and prayers.<br />best wishes,<br />andy

Archive 09-14-2007 05:54 AM

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Posted By: <b>leon</b><p>Sorry to hear of your loss Jay.....we went thru 3 miscarriages ourselves...It's pretty tough. Hang in there...

Archive 09-14-2007 06:27 AM

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Posted By: <b>Jason Duncan</b><p>There is nothing words can say to lessen the pain. I am so sorry for your loss.<br><br><br>Jason

Archive 09-14-2007 06:29 AM

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Posted By: <b>Brian</b><p>Tender sympathies Jay....<br /><br />Brian

Archive 09-14-2007 07:29 AM

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Posted By: <b>martindl</b><p><br />Jay,<br />Our thoughts and prayers to you and your girlfriend and to your both of your families.<br /><br />Martin

Archive 09-14-2007 07:53 AM

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Posted By: <b>Rob</b><p>Sorry to hear about your loss Jay. You and your wife will need each other through this tough time. <br /><br />We lost our first child at 5 months also. Found out that day that it was a boy. So many emotions all at once ... mostly sadness and a feeling of loneliness. Sometimes felt nothing at all, like nothing else existed.<br /><br /><br />My condolences ...<br />

Archive 09-14-2007 08:04 AM

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Posted By: <b>daryle</b><p>Jay, sorry to hear of your loss.

Archive 09-14-2007 08:36 AM

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Posted By: <b>RC</b><p>Jay,<br /><br />So sorry to hear the terrible news. My deepest condolences to both of you.<br /><br />RC

Archive 09-14-2007 09:45 AM

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Posted By: <b>Brian Marcy</b><p><br />As a father of twins I could not imagine the pain you are going through. Our prayers are with you.<br /><br />Brian

Archive 09-14-2007 10:11 AM

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Posted By: <b>shane leonard</b><p>Jay,<br />I am so sorry to hear this. My wife and I lost our second child in the third month. Keep up the good fight!<br /><br />Shane

Archive 09-14-2007 10:26 AM

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Posted By: <b>Bob C</b><p>Jay,<br />I cannot say how sorry I am for your loss. I found myself nearly in the same situation when our twins were born premature at 30 weeks. My wife was in the hospital flat on her back for three weeks prior to their birth; it was very touch and go. Afterward, the twins were in neo-natal ICU for 3 more weeks. It was a gut wrenching experience and lots of prayers and bargains with God were made by me.<br />Your's is a terrible loss, and I trust your faith and family will help get you trough this sad time.<br />Sincerely,<br />Bob Craik

Archive 09-14-2007 10:50 AM

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Posted By: <b>Ricky Y</b><p>Jay<br /><br />My sincere condolences to you and the family. Stay strong.<br /><br />Ricky Y

Archive 09-14-2007 11:09 AM

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Posted By: <b>John H.</b><p>My sincere condolences to you and your wife.<br /><br />John

Archive 09-14-2007 12:17 PM

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Posted By: <b>Bob</b><p>Jay- I hated to hear this. I can only echo what Ricky just said, "stay strong." I can only hope that your next child will be healthy and strong.<br />Your pal,<br />Tbob

Archive 09-14-2007 12:21 PM

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Posted By: <b>Al C.risafulli</b><p>Sorry to hear this, Jay. We had a couple miscarriages ourselves, and it's never easy, particularly when you've chosen a name.<br /><br />My best to your family.<br /><br />-Al

Archive 09-14-2007 12:30 PM

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Posted By: <b>Dennis Lane</b><p>Jay...SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS...sincerely...Dennis

Archive 09-14-2007 12:43 PM

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Posted By: <b>Andy</b><p>Jay,<br /><br />I feel bad just reading your post, I can't imagine what you're going through. But from the posts above, it looks like you have a pretty nice group of peers here to offer support. <br /><br />A friend of mine said something simple to me once at a very sad time that has stuck with me for some reason. "Just Keep Smiling" i.e., keep your chin up, make them proud Jay. <br /><br />My sincere sympathy,<br><br>Thanks,<br /><br />Andy

Archive 09-14-2007 01:11 PM

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Posted By: <b>mark</b><p>jay-<br />want to let you know how much we all share in your pain & grief.<br />tho nothing we can say or do will change any of this,<br />it is comforting to note the tremendous support from our community.<br />sincerest sympathy for you & the family.<br />mark

Archive 09-14-2007 03:13 PM

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Posted By: <b>Andy Cook</b><p>Jay, we lost our first child too. You and your wife are in our prayers.<br /><br />Andy

Archive 09-14-2007 04:44 PM

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Posted By: <b>Darren</b><p>Jay, <br /><br />I'm sorry for your loss. May God bless you and yours.


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