OT: Sad News

[wolf441]

Sorry to bring the real world into this wonderful forum that has brought me some respite from the medical issues that my family has gone through these past few years with my son. Yesterday, at 12:30 pm, we lost our sweet James. We are sure that his soul has passed to a more gentle and beautiful place. Through his wish to be an organ donor, his strength and generosity has given the gift of precious time back to three people. His donation will allow these recipients to add another candle to their birthday cake, be there to walk their daughter down the aisle, see their son's first homerun or to simply to feel the sun on their face for one more amazing day. I don't think I'll be back on the board for awhile, but please know that so many of your posts and messages made me smile over the years.

Your friend,

Steve

[LKeeler]

Steve, I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

[scooter729]

God bless you and your family, Steve - I can't imagine the feeling, but will say a prayer for all of you and for James today.

Scott

[MVSNYC]

Steve, I'm sure there's no words to help soothe you, but please know we are with you, here. All the best.

[Joshchisox08]

I'm really sorry about your son Steve. As a father I can't fathom how on earth anything in the world can be worse.

Generous indeed for what he has done for others being a donor. Really sorry Steve try and hang in there the best that you can.

[gregr2]

Steve - truly sorry to hear about your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family..
Greg

[rjackson44]

god bless

[btcarfagno]

This is so sad to hear. I can't begin to imagine what your family is going through right now, or what your family and especially your son went through the past few years. I pray you are all able to take some solace in the fact that he is in a much better place.

Tom C

[ullmandds]

steve...so sorry to hear about this...my thoughts are with you and yours.

pete

[edjs]

You and your family will be in my prayers. I am truly sorry for your loss. May the Lord bring you comfort in your time of need.

[T206Collector]

Just heartbreaking news. Best wishes from my family to yours.

[Joshwesley]

I'm a brand new dad (9 weeks)..found this forum 8 weeks ago.

I just can't imagine this. I'm so truly sorry but I am praying the peace that passes understanding to be with you and your family.
May the love and comfort of Jesus be with you and you're now and forever.
You'll see him again!

[Nashvol]

Peace be with you...

[Leon]

So sorry to hear this, Steve. My heartfelt condolences and prayers for you and your family. As a parent I am sure that has to be just about the worst thing one can go through in life. take care and we'll be here when you are ready to come back....

[Gobucsmagic74]

Thoughts and prayers going out to you and your family Steve. So sorry for your loss

[Northviewcats]

Very sorry to hear the news. May God be with you and your family.

Joe

[pawpawdiv9]

Brings tears to my heart to read that. I dont have any kids, but spend all my time, when i can with my 8yr nephew.

[Kenny Cole]

Terrible news. My prayers are with you and your family.

[jefferyepayne]

I am so sorry to hear this, Steve. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

jeff

[Al C.risafulli]

Oh, Steve, I am so, so sorry. I can't even fathom the pain you must be enduring.

I'll be wishing for peace and inner strength for you and your family. Please accept my most heartfelt condolences.

-Al

[Sean1125]

My thoughts are with you and your family.

[Jobu]

I am very sorry to hear about James and I applaud his decision to help others, you and your family will be in my thoughts. I look forward to your return to the board, hopefully we can help you start smiling again when you are ready.

[ibuysportsephemera]

I am very sorry for your loss. Prayers to you and your family.

Jeff

[bbcard1]

So very sorry for you and your family.

[milkit1]

I'm really sorry for your loss Steve.

[autograf]

So sorry for your loss Steve. I have two daughters and two stepsons and cannot fathom losing any of them. A parent should never have to bury their child. Organ donation is a noble cause that more of us should take up. Stop back here often as the folks here are a great source of comfort.

[iowadoc77]

I am so sorry for your loss. As I read this, the thought of losing my 10 or 13 year old sons is crushing. I can't imagine. I will pray for peace for you and for fond memories. May God be your strength today and all your days.
Eric

[PM770]

I will keep you and your family in my prayers.

God Bless,

[Moonlight Graham]

Steve, you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. I can't begin to imagine how difficult losing a child is. Take care.

Joe

[conor912]

Ugh. That is heart-wrenching. As stated, there is no greater tragedy than a parent burying their kid. My thoughts are with you and your family. Considering the circumstances, you have a great outlook....your son's passing has given immeasurable joy to several other families and that should not be taken lightly. For that, he is a hero. God bless.

[barrysloate]

Such horrible news, and I know the pain you must be feeling. I hope you are able to get through this.

[rednecksims]

Prayers to you and your family.

David

[The Nasty Nati]

So sorry to hear this. My prayers are with your son and family.

[LuckyLarry]

So sorry for your very great loss.
Larry

[Laxcat]

So sorry. I know you must be overwhelmed and exhausted. Get rest. It is important. We are all thinking of you.

[clydepepper]

Steve- you and your family are in my thoughts. Net54 will miss you while you are away, but will be happy when you return...and we know you will.

Sincerely,
Raymond Culpepper

[edhans]

We will keep you and your family on our prayers, Steve.

[Jantz]

I'm so sorry to hear this Steve.

My condolences to you & your family.


Jantz

[vintagehofrookies]

So sorry for your loss. No parent should ever have to bury their child.

My condolences to you & your family,

Dan

[Brian Van Horn]

Steve,

My condolences to you and your family.

[dog*dirt]

My thoughts are with you and your family.

[Eric72]

Please accept my sincere condolences regarding the loss of your child. If there is anything I can possibly do to help during this difficult time, please don't hesitate to ask.

I shall keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.

Respectfully,

Eric Perry

[t206blogcom]

I could not imagine your pain Steve. I'm so verry sorry for your loss. God bless you and your family.

[sycks22]

God bless you and your family Steve.

[Jay Wolt]

Steve, so sorry to hear of your loss, just heartbreaking news.

[emmygirl]

Steve, so sorry for your lose. Praying for God's unlimited love for you and your family..

[4815162342]

I just lifted you and your family up in prayer, and will continue to do so. May the Good Lord comfort and bless you.

[slidekellyslide]

Steve, I can not even imagine your pain and loss. I am so sorry, my thoughts are with you and your family.

[GrayGhost]

God Bless you and your family sir in these hard times. I can't imagine the pain. Take the time you need to grieve and remember, and never lose the memories, and the knowing you will all be together again someday. May your love for James overtake the pain you feel in your heart at this time.

Scott

[brian1961]

Steve,

My heart grieves for you and your wife, brother. I am so very sorry. I'm a dad too and there is little to say that helps. May God carry you at this most difficult time. Please come back and join us later, when you feel you can do so. In the mean time, our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family, brother. ---Brian Powell

[glchen]

Sorry to hear about your loss. Take care.

[brass_rat]

I'm sorry for your loss, Steve. My thoughts are with you and your family.

Steve

[DHogan]

I'm very sorry to hear of your loss. It's a great thing for him to donate organs.

[Mark70Z]

That is such sad news. So sorry for your loss.

[slipk1068]

So sorry Steve. Praying for you and your family.

[Beatles Guy]

My condolences. May his memory ease your pain.

[mark evans]

My sincerest sympathies.

[Rich Klein]

No parent should ever have to bury their child. Please focus on what is important and come back here whenever you are ready. We are ALL behind you in this and just remember you have one heck of a support system on Net 54

We might fight and fuss over things, but rarely over truly important issues.

Rich

[wonkaticket]

I'm sorry for your family's loss, I wish you better days Steve.

Warm Regards,

John

[trdcrdkid]

Steve,

I'm so sorry for your heartbreaking loss. You're in my thoughts.

[Econteachert205]

Take care Steve, sorry for your loss.

[DeanH3]

Steve,

Sorry to hear about your loss. I can't pretend to understand what you are going through. You and your family will be in my prayers. I hope in time you are able to find some peace.

[Tim Kindler]

Steve,
So sorry to hear of your family's loss. The Board's thoughts and prayers are with you.
Tim Kindler

[Jacker_ Cracks]

Steve,
May the Peace of Christ that surpasses all understanding, guard your heart and mind. My heart hurts for you and your family...

[mrvster]

My deepest condolences to you and your family......I am in shock for you.....reading this brought a tear in my eye and a lump in my throat......call or email me anytime you want, day or evening.....you are a BIG part of this board and have brought me joy in your great posts to me and my cards,.....


Your son IS in a better place ....I AM SURE......looking at you and proud of his dad...


My thoughts and prayers are with you my friend....

WE ARE all here for you when you are ready to post again...


GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY....

Peace my friend


V

[Edwolf1963]

So very sorry to hear, Steve. God bless and be with you and your family.

[packs]

I'm not a religious person but there is a bible verse I like to think about in good times and in bad:

Then I heard the voice of the Lord saying, "Whom shall I send, and who will go for us?"

I said, "Here I am. Send me."

[yanksfan09]

So sorry for your loss. Can't begin to understand the pain. Hang on, my sincerest sympathies.

[gnaz01]

God bless you and your family through these times.

[soxinseven]

So sorry for your loss. Prayers to you and your family...

[7nohitter]

Just read this after yelling at my son to be careful out riding his bike. Puts things in perspective.

I am so sorry for your unimaginable loss. Words can't express the sympathy I feel.

[Klrdds]

Words can't begin to express to you my heartfelt sorrow for your loss. You and your family will be in my prayers tonight.. God Bless

[pcoz]

Steve, so sorry for your loss. Until you see your son again, I hope you and your family find peace in your wonderful memories of him. Prayers to you and yours.

[mullinsm]

My father is the humble and grateful recipient of an organ donor. These last six years of his life would have not been possible without the kindness and generosity of families like yours. Please know that the tragedy and sadness of your loss is shared by families like mine who can never possibly thank you enough for the gift you have given us. Bless you.

[1963Topps Set]

My prayers are with you always. God bless,

Tom

[Wihawk]

My condolences to you and your family. God bless all of you.

[sreader3]

Steve,

I have a 17- and 13-year old and they are my world. I weep for you. There are no words. Stay strong.

Scot

[Redromad]

Thoughts and prayers to you and your family
In this
time of great loss.


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[tiger8mush]

Wish I knew what to say to help, Steve.

Around 9-10 years ago my wife delivered prematurely at 6 months and our baby boy didn't survive. By far worst day of my life. We have two boys now, 6 and 8 yrs old. Can't imagine what you are going thru, the pain you are feeling. Honestly wiping tears away right now. Be proud of young James. Giving life is no small feat. He's given it to three others.

Condolences to you and your family Steve. Is there a charity we can donate to in James' name?

[wolf441]

I am so truly thankful for the outpouring of sympathy from all of you. ALL of your words of kindness have helped to ease the pain. I've been in the same situation as all of you and I know it's hard to believe that words can make any difference in a situation like this, but from where I am now, I can tell you just how much they mean. I'd just like the honor of sharing something that my oldest son Jack (23) wrote today on Facebook. He is obviously much more eloquent and thoughtful than I can ever hope to be:

First and foremost, let me say how incredible all of your love and support has been. It's been rough, and will continue to be, but without all of our amazing friends and family, we would be truly lost.

Jimmy was a lot of things, an amazing brother, an incredible artist, and my best friend. He lived a lifetime of struggle and experience in his 18 years, and did so with unprecedented strength and integrity. His heart and soul were so pure, all he had to give was love, adoration, and care, no matter who you were. He taught us so many things, life lessons you won't find in a book or a classroom. Now he's on to the next step of the journey, and will be waiting for us when the universe deems us worthy enough to join him.

Today we were given word that James, being an organ donor, saved the lives of two people, a man in his fifties, and a woman in her twenties. Though we feel grief at his passing, there are two families holding their loved ones hands, and watching another sunrise. Jimmy finally got to be the superhero he knew he was inside and I have never been more proud to call him my brother.

Godspeed my little buddy. We know you're watching over us, and we will live our lives in honor of you, to change the world the way you changed our lives. I know you finally have your Iron Man suit and you're soaring above the clouds, free from the pain and suffering that holds us tethered to this world.

If you're reading this, go to your family, call them, whatever. Tell them you love them, it can never be said enough. Hold them close and make sure they know what they mean to you.

And never forget the biggest lesson that Jimmy taught us all:

You don't need to know the names of the constellations, you just need to remember to look up at the stars.

I love you my little super hero. Take care of everyone up there for us.

With all of my heart and soul, I'll see you later alligator.

[Mountaineer1999]

That is a wonderful tribute to your son. My condolences to you and your family.

[VoodooChild]

Steve, so sorry to hear about the loss of your son James. May his memory be eternal. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

[Koufax32fan]

I come on this forum to read about cardboard, and instead I learn that the world is full of caring, thoughtful people.

Steve, your son has given the gift of life to others and you have shared that gift with us.

May your memories of your son provide you with some amount of solace during this incredibly difficult time.

[Bored5000]

Sorry to bring the real world into this wonderful forum that has brought me some respite from the medical issues that my family has gone through these past few years with my son. Yesterday, at 12:30 pm, we lost our sweet James. We are sure that his soul has passed to a more gentle and beautiful place. Through his wish to be an organ donor, his strength and generosity has given the gift of precious time back to three people. His donation will allow these recipients to add another candle to their birthday cake, be there to walk their daughter down the aisle, see their son's first homerun or to simply to feel the sun on their face for one more amazing day. I don't think I'll be back on the board for awhile, but please know that so many of your posts and messages made me smile over the years.

Your friend,

Steve

Very sorry for your loss. Hopefully, you can take at least some comfort in knowing that his decision to be an organ donor is helping other people. I have an ACL in my left leg that came from someone else after I tore mine in 2011. Without that, I would never be able to have any kind of normal functionality of my leg.

[JasonD08]

Steve

I cannot imagine....I pray for peace. I know coming as close as I did almost losing my daughter pales in comparison and thinking I could not survive that, I cannot imagine your pain. I pray for peace and love that this world cannot give you. I pray you to find comfort some way. May you see your son in this world every way in a loving and positive way.

Jason

[AustinMike]

Steve,

So terribly sorry to hear of your loss. One of life's most tragic moments is when a parent has to bury a child. It is something that should never happen. Our thoughts are with you and your family.

[freakhappy]

So sorry to hear about this, Steve. I was in a state of shock when I first read this thread and my heart really sank...I couldn't begin to imagine what you're going through. I'll be praying for you and your family...God bless

[Rickyy]

Steve,

My Condolences to you and your family for your loss.

Ricky Y

[Hot Springs Bathers]

Steve- What a beautiful post in a sad time. I lost a daughter many years ago, as you mentioned remember the smiles and the warm times.

[Maddog]

There really are no words for this kind of tragedy.
Steve, my deepest sympathies to you and your family.
The one consolation is that your son's selfless gift earned him a special place in heaven.

[ls7plus]

Steve, he IS in a better place. May God and the passage of time heal your hurt.

May blessings follow you all the days of your life,

Larry

[ls7plus]

Steve, I didn't see my post after submitting it, and think it important enough to post once more--he IS in a better place--my faith guarantees this is so. May God heal your hurt and know this: you WILL see him again, when it matters, and our time here is short as we travel down eternity's road.

May God's blessings follow you all the days of your life!

Larry

[Lordstan]

Steve,
I am so sorry to hear you lost your son. You and your family have my sincerest condolences. I cannot imagine the emotions of losing a child, but it appears that his life touched your family and others in a very special way.

In the end, I think that is the true measure of a life. Did we leave this world a better place for our being in it? It certainly appears that he did make this place better. I am sure he is in a better place waiting on your arrival at some point in the future, hopefully distant.
Best,
Mark

[Joshchisox08]

This hits home for any parent I did already post but I saw someone else suggested setting up a fund to contribute in James's memory.

I wouldn't be able to contribute much but I would contribute something. I think that it is a great idea. If anyone is going to set one up and with Steve and his family's approval please let me know.

[wolf441]

This hits home for any parent I did already post but I saw someone else suggested setting up a fund to contribute in James's memory.

I wouldn't be able to contribute much but I would contribute something. I think that it is a great idea. If anyone is going to set one up and with Steve and his family's approval please let me know.

Thank you Josh and thank you all again for your kind words. Your thoughts and prayers mean more than you all know. Below is a portion of Jimmy's obituary. United We SK8 is an amazing program that teaches special needs children to skate and allows them to be part of a team. Most of the kids in the program are under the age of 8. The coaches all took Jim under their wings and made him an honorary "assistant coach". He was so proud to be able to go out on the ice and help the little kids navigate their way around the rink. Every Sunday, he'd tell everyone that he had to go to work and help his teammates. Please don't feel pressured to donate, again your thoughts and prayers have given such comfort to me and my family. Thank you again and God bless you all. This is an amazing community that we have here on Net54.


Jimmy was a proud assistant coach for the Blackstone Valley Bulldogs Hockey Team, Hopedale.
In lieu of flowers donations may be made in Jimmy's memory to United We Sk8, 61 Northbridge Rd., Mendon, MA 01756. (gofund.me/4zmax4).

[mrvster]

you are one of the nicest guys on this board....your loss has truly saddened me.....email me when you can....

johnny

[rc4157]

Steve - I just read about your son's passing, you and your family have my most sincere condolences. He did a great thing with the organ donations, that is very selfless and is to be admired. Your other son did a tremendous job of expressing his love for his brother. Take care, RC

[GoldenAge50s]

I've been away from the Board since Tues & just now saw your post. I'm totally devastated to hear this about your son.

You know I'm just down the road & if there is anything I can do in any small way, please prevail upon me.

Please accept my since condolences to you & your loving family.

Your friend,
Fred

[clydepepper]

Steve- I was so moved by your son's tribute to his brother. I hope that all board members read it and, if they have not already, become organ donors.

Pay it Forward
.
.

[Marckus99]

My prayers and blessings are with you, your family and son.

- Mark Rios

[ksfarmboy]

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Very sorry to hear this news.

[dougscats]

Steve,

So sorry to hear the crushing news.

My heart goes out to you.

Thank you for your care,
and I hope I'm here someday
when you can go on.

Doug

[caramelcard]

Steve,

So sorry to hear this. Thinking of you and your family.

Rob

[Bicem]

Very sorry to hear this Steve, really puts things into perspective.

[ethicsprof]

my prayers are with you this moment and continuing.
my deepest condolences to you and your family,

Barry

[YankeeFan]

Most sad indeed. My heart breaks for you and your family Steve.

I pray for comfort in this difficult time. And blessings for those who were the recipients of his gracious gifts. May their lives add even more honor to James' memory.

[wazoo]

So sorry my friend :( You and your family are in my prayers!

[yanks4]

Steve,,,It is with a heavy heart that I write a little something that I truly hope in a small way helps you through the passage of your beautiful son....God will carry you through this and I know your remaining family will become even closer as you remember the gifts that James gave you all,,,God Bless you,James, and your family......